A picky eater tries parental patience with
strange, frustrating, and often worrisome eating habits. Feeding challenges
most often begin when a child is between 1 and 2 years old. Toddlers become
picky for several reasons: change in appetite, urge for power and independence,
wary about new foods and change in food preferences. As stressful and
frustrating a picky eater may be, it is important that parents model good
eating habits and continue to reinforce healthy food choices. The following
strategies can help parents cope with a picky eater and ensure the child is
receiving the necessary nutrients.
Introduce
new foods slowly and positively
The most efficient way to introduce a new food is
to offer it when the child is hungry. Parents should taste the food with the
child to prevent any anxiety and make the experience fun. If the child rejects
the food, don’t give up. It takes up to 10 interactions with a food for the
child to determine he does not like it.
Involve
the toddler in food selection and preparation
Allow the child to select one new food to try that
week. Make grocery shopping a sensory experience. Let the child touch, smell
and select the food. In the kitchen, have the child help wash and prepare the
food item. When children are more involved, they are more likely to want to eat
the food.
Eliminate
mealtime distractions
All members of the family should sit at the table
and enjoy the meal together, free of distractions. Turn the TV off, clear the
table of clutter and suggest individuals sit at designated spots at the table
to create a routine and sense of familiarity. Do not make food the topic of
discussion, instead focus on each other.
Serve
fun, finger foods
A child’s interest can be stimulated by making
meal time fun! Some ideas include cutting food into cute shapes, using fun
utensils, allowing the child to create a shape or decorate the plate with small
pieces of food. Let the child experiment with various textures like crunchy,
smooth, chewy and crispy foods. Be sure the foods are small enough for the
child to pick up with his fingers or a utensil. The more a child associates
food with excitement and curiosity, the more likely he will be to expand his
palate.
Use
dips and dressings
Children love dipping foods into sauces. Examples
include carrots with ranch, apples with peanut butter, or strawberries with
yogurt. Place the dip into small containers to make dipping easier and less
messy.
More
information can be found in Nurturing
with Nutrition by Melanie Bazarte and Lucille Beseler. If you would like to
purchase a copy of the book or speak to a nutrition professional, please call
the Family Nutrition Center of South Florida at 954-360-7883 or visit
nutritionandfamily.com.